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dalaga

Last week, a gaggle of lady friends and I made our way to the opening of the second Dalaga boutique, this one in Soho. Dalaga, owned and beautifully edited by Filipina sisters Michelle and Mary Mangiliman, has been a mainstay boutique in Greenpoint for Brooklynite lovelies on the hunt for affordable pretty lady frocks, edgy jewelry, shoes and accessories for about six years.

The first time I stepped foot inside the adorable shop when I moved to New York, I gasped with glee, eyes alight with the magical wardrobe possibilities… It also made me reminisce to my own childhood, and the significance of  ’dalaga’. The Mangilimans describe the term to mean “a young woman in her prime,” but I often have a hard time expressing what it means to others, as the feelings and hazy memories attached to the word get easily lost in translation. As a young Filipina coming of age, being referred to as ‘dalaga’ provoked an almost inexplicable feeling of simultaneous blushful embarrassment and flattered euphoria. Dalagas were who little girls looked up to with awe at their grace, confidence and 2.5-inch heels, who represented what they could someday become. And at a certain point in your life, you became pretty damn proud upon entrance into that very realm.

A wonderful feeling and salute to a warm and loving heritage. Thanks for reminding me of that, ladies, and for sharing your charming treasure trove with a new audience!

Top four photos from Dalaga’s Instagram feed/Tumblr

With Kristin outside the Soho boutique
Photo: Ernie Peña

Check out the Ark & Co. blouse I scored at the opening!
Also, Jovovich-Hawk dress, Jeffrey Campbell shoes, vintage necklace

Ark & Co. blouse

((Zola Jesus – Skin))

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31 candles

Yesterday, I turned 31. This definitely went over our lunch server’s head as she spent a full 1.75 minutes studying my driver’s license. Everlasting carding irritations aside, I had a simply glorious day and was happy as a crab (which I incidentally devoured 3X during my celebratory meal, as it is my favorite of all the foods).

Brian managed to keep dinner a surprise for weeks and, boy oh boy, did that surprise deliver. He took me to David Bouley’s Brushstrokefor a modern take on a Japanese kaiseki meal — nine courses of mind-blowing, party-in-my-mouth dishes. The ingredients used are incredibly fresh and seasonal, but this meal also elevates eating to a visual art form, with balanced decisions made based on flavors, textures and colors. I pretty much squealed with delight upon eyeing, and then consuming each new plate. The blonde wood and minimalist dining decor worked in perfect harmony with the feast, and I unwittingly put on a birthday dress fitting to the milieu that morning.

This is the face of 31.

I’m going to grow older and older with him.

We interrupt your regularly scheduled personal style programming for some food porn. Check out the candle holder made of radish.

Our cherry blossoms withered over the course of the 3-hour meal, which was, beautifully, the point. This is how I want to wither — with grace, not botox.

My favorite course — chawanmushi with dungeness crab (#1) and black truffle oil. Yeah, that tasted exactly as unsettlingly delicious as it sounds.

Crab course #2 (soft shell crab in tempura batter and sesame seeds atop a ramp puree)

Well, of course I had to make this face. I’m eating.

Birthday treats, with a side of sinister. A delightful finale.

Dark like my soul

Peach Zara frilled dress, Anthropologie ankle socks, tuleste market clog wedge sandals, vintage Coach stewardess bag

Husband’s birthday gift, via Dear Fieldbinder

So there we have it. I am officially past 30 and ‘in my thirties.” Inasmuch as 30 blew the decade before it clear out of the water, I’m pretty pumped to see what this one holds. If this surprise meal serves as any sort of metaphor for what may come, something tells me I’m in for something good.

((The Bird & the Bee – I’m into Something Good))

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hoppy happy easter!

Warm sun! Pastels! Cute, fuzzy animals! Alfresco dining! Fluros! Ramps! Birthday parties! Bare legs! Spring!

Let’s frolic!

Cat. Je te plumerai la tête, cat!

Easter bunny. Duh.

This fragrance still fills our home. Mmm hmm.

Blah blah vintage pussy bow blouse, Free People lace skort, old Bass shoes blah blah

Hippity…

[pause]

hoppity…

…makes for puzzled cat. Poor befuddled Audrey.

Happy April!!

((Mark Ronson & The Business Intl – Bang Bang Bang))

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district 12 digs

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Wilfred Marquis jacket via Aritzia, BDG jeans, Justin roper boots, Filson tote bag, I Adorn U bracelet and arrow earrings

Happy hunger games, everybody! After a couple years of impatient childlike anticipation, the day finally arrived! Persnickety critiques of minuscule book deviations and the lack of Battle Royale-esque violence aside, this movie (for me) delivered. The cast was pretty damn fantastic. Exception: Liam Hemsworth is veering dangerously close to Taylor Lautner (::shudder::) territory, but we’ll just have to give him the benefit of the doubt until installment #2. Overall, the spirit of the novel was beautifully captured, the cinematography breathtakingly bleak. And every Capitol scene was like one giant Dances of Vice shindig (hello, feast for the eyes!).

Like probably every other fan out there, I went in lightly Katniss inspired, sans side braid (as that is my lazy girl coif of choice). Opted instead for a clumsy, nest-y approximation of the prettiness in Madewell’s current Parisian[!] lookbook (yeah, yeah, it needs practice. I know this.) You know you all have some sort of utilitarian/workman inspired jive in your wardrobes, and it really does make the viewing experience that much more fun. And anything that empowers just a smidge of bad-assery in us all is a positive in my book.

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empire state of mind

The winter-spring limbo has left me lethargic and uninspired and thus, I apologize for my weeklong radio silence. And thus, I give you nothing but weekend picspam.

But before we get to that, important things first! The uber-fancy musical e-card we received from our vet reminded me that Audrey is 2 today (give or take a few)! Birthday cat! Yay!

Onto the picspam. Now, this post’s title might not seem so readily fitting to the following photos, but this past weekend was a bright and friend-ful reminder of the pure joy dwelling in this marvelous city can bring. All of these little details may seem mundane to the casual observer, but they work to piece together evocative and often hazy (as in a handful of the pictures themselves) keepsakes for each of our personal NYC’s. My favorite NYC moments are the ones with a sense of hygge (introduced to me by bff Katja). It rhymes with googley, and is pretty aptly described on Flavorwire as “people, things, or surroundings that give a sense of joy and well-being. It is probably most closely related to cosy, with a little good cheer thrown in for extra warmth.” We had all elements this weekend: friends, Brooklyn bars with their soft Edison lighting, dinner parties, kittehs, cupcakes and ice cream. It’s the simple stuff dreamy memories are made of. And the stuff that refreshes how blessed we are to be here.

The Woody Allen corned beef-pastrami sandwich at America’s most famous deli, Carnegie Deli

This is my work friend Tani (the one in the middle). She’s one of the most positive, smiliest, cucumber-cool gals I know. You can check out her life musings at her blog Perspection.

Blue Ribbon fried chicken

Blue Ribbon fried chicken face

American Eagle cardigan, cheapie store blouse, Kova & T liquid leggings, vintage booties

Birthday boy

If any of this sounds ridiculous or ill of grammar, please excuse my DST brain. And be careful crossing the street this week, y’all. Springing forward be messing with our motor skills.

les adieux à la reine

Hey, hey, did you guys know that when I go girlie, I go HARD? No, I didn’t think so. In yet another instance of stereotypical sacchariferous, unabashed ladylike fashion, I admit a fondness for all things Rococo, Versailles, Marie Antoinette. I will eat a dozen macarons in one sitting and was once elatedly excited when someone told me I resembled a cupcake at a friend’s wedding. I frolicked with the frivolous glee of a middle American child at Disney World the first time Brian took me to Versailles (the same day, which, in a perfect expression of synchronism, I held the door to a cramped fromagerie open for Mz. Sofia Coppola and her baby carriage). And Sofia’s rendition of Marie’s ennui does no wrong in my thus candied eyes. Also, I’m super duper into costumes. It then follows that I must rejoice in events that suggest/require themed attire. And sometimes I accoutre in theme when the occasion calls not for it. Yesterday, for instance, Brian, aka besthusbandinthegalaxy, bought tickets to the first U.S. screening and director Q&A of Benoît Jacquot’s Les adieux à la reine (Farewell, My Queen), the story of the devotion of the ill-fated queen’s reader (servant POV, what what!) that opened this year’s Berlin International Film Festival. Well, then, what’s a girl to do when faced with such an affair? Dress in at least slight approximation to a macaron or profiterole, natch.

Farewell, My Queen still from The Huffington Post

This outfit needed something in pistachio. I just couldn’t get it together. So you can just imagine a pistachio macaron sitting in my belly. I will do this, too.

You must drink bubbles before a Marie Antoinette era film. Must.

Shimmy-shakin’ in a Zara crochet sweater (more peach IRL), BB Dakota Alethea skort (yes, I said skort), Repetto lace-ups, Purevile Marie Antoinette neckace

Besides the aforementioned fixations with 18th-century French frippery (which is sumptuously represented therein), I did truly love this film and highly recommend it. It’s toned in a such a way I haven’t seen in a picture on this subject matter before; it gives the viewer the sensation of confinement and apprehensive discomfort from the servants’ vantage point (a rarity) — a large feat (re:confinement) given it was filmed at Versailles proper. Ça suffit!

a cup of coffee.

Ok, so do you remember my love letter to Dear Creatures? Well, today there is further evidence of Bianca + Rob’s adorableness–this time with sight, sound and motion, via Starbucks’ Find Your Balance series.

Head on over here!

(Psst, keep an eye out for new pieces from upcoming collections!).

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these are a few of my favorite things.

I know it’s my second post of the day, but this had to happen. A brilliant, life-loving kindred soul marries her love for fashion and food (also two of my favorite f-words… {ahem}…) into one delectable morsel. Today, I share with you a not new, but new-to-me blog called Taste of Runway (recipes included!). This is just too too fun.

Aha! And now I am filled with glee.

Bon appétit!

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capitol couture(!!!)

Unless you’ve recently awoken from a cryogenic slumber, you’ve at least heard, more likely partaken in the hubbub surrounding the post-apocalyptic young adult series The Hunger Games, whose film adaptation hits US screens on March 23rd of this year. I personally have not been this excited for a film release since my 8-year old birthday post-slumber party screening of Disney’s The Little Mermaid (new fact: I have a juvenile and unhealthy fondness for mermaids, and as a child, would whisper “I know you’re real!” into the ocean).

Fans like myself have been anticipating photos of each new outfit by costume designer Judianna Makovsky with baited breath, and so far, they’ve done nothing but amplify Hunger Games fever. Take a look at the famous girl-on-fire outfit created for Jennifer Lawrence’s Katniss Everdeen teased just days ago:

I’m particularly losing my mind over the looks created for Elizabeth Banks’ Effie Trinket (well, of course, she wears McQueen booties) who’s smokin’ in all her futuristic rococo glory. Pastel coifs, you guys!!

From capitolcouture.pn

The latest Hunger Games marketing move brings us a fashion & culture magazine exhibiting the whimsical fashions of citizens of the Capitol!! I’m so so into this.


Enjoy CapitalCouture.pn!

((Ladyhawke – Paris is Burning))

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inspiration: garance doré

Today, I am sitting on a [peach-hued] happy cloud. We at the office had the honor and pleasure of the loveliest of visits from Garance Doré, one of the foremost fashion bloggers in the world. I emerged from this talk inspired and empowered, the latter being a sensation I rarely report encountering. She had a host of wonderful things to say (YouTube video posted here).

Starting any sort of blog is, from my standpoint, incredibly vulnerable, daunting business. The fashion blogging world in particular seems to me a densely crowded frenzy, rife with passionate people adept at staying on top of the fast-paced fashion world–bigwigs, “ones to watch,” ever-changing ‘it’ girls, S/S, F/W, pre-fall, resort, haute couture, front rows and all. It makes me dizzy. It, in fact, took me three years to give myself a chance to attempt this, as I do get overwhelmed by the idea of staying “on top” of it all and the fear of judgment is ever-looming overhead. This blog sphere felt to me like it possessed a great tidal wave to entry. And when I did start this, I would habitually proof-read past entries, worrying that what I produced was “too personal,” that no one would be interested in reading such things.

And then Garance swept in, all charming and French and decidedly unpretentious. Here she was, a woman who was at the forefront of this massive movement when it first emerged–excitedly musing on fashion and technology, and amusingly befuddled by the mysteries of mom jeans and mom haircuts. It was refreshing to hear how her sweet, unfiltered, irreverent and self-described “goofy” voice in person echoes the voice of her blog. Her advice for novice bloggers was to “go slow” and be open to trial and error, to be open to your blog evolving into something you hadn’t planned. She told us all to make it personal and allow our voices to shine through. She admitted that she herself just sometimes doesn’t feel like staying abreast of it all, and expressed that not everyone needs to be in the thick of this insanity, reporting on the latest and greatest in the industry. She emphasized the importance of writing about things that you love, the things that inspire you, for pure joy.

Garance’s talk reminded me of the reason I gave this a go in the first place. I love sartorialism as an art form and as a reflection of a person’s history and passions. I love what inspires designers to create and how a wearer chooses to represent him or herself to the world. I love how this art/medium/however you choose to describe it connects people. (Sidebar: my now-husband might not have approached me that day had I not been wearing the polka-dot dress he complimented me on–true story. Connect, it does). I even love being a voyeur to the ridiculousness (the silliness!) of this ginormous realm. This stuff lights a fire in me and this place gives me a venue to direct these energies.

So, merci beaucoup, Garance.

And thank you, dear reader, for permitting me a look-see. I deeply, truly appreciate it.

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